In Rama Rajya there were no such quarrels in the family. The sense of duty and co-operation was firmly established. The son would bring the money earned by him and keep it at the father’s feet.
The father would not touch this money. Both would try to convince each other to keep the money. Hearing this sweet quarrel the mother would intervene. The son would request the mother to keep the money. The mother would not accept but requests the son to give it to her daughter – in –law also would not keep it saying she would ask for money whenever necessary.
Ultimately the father would keep all the money in a small temple in the house. Members of the family would use the money according to their needs. The fear of misappropriation did not exist.
When there is trust & love among family, no control is required.