There was a monk who carried a mirror wherever he went. A priest noticed and thought he must be so pre‐occupied with the way he looks. He should not worry about the outside, instead what is inside is what counts. So the priest asked, why do you carry that mirror, thinking for sure, this would prove his guilt. The monk pulled the mirror from his bag and pointed it at the priest. Then said, I use it in times of trouble, I look into it and it shows me the source of my problems as well as the solution to my problem.
Moral :‐ Whatever is happening is my life, I have created it I am responsible the mirror says. No Blame please. Because these are the choices I have made.